The key to resolving this is to realize that for a DC circuit, in
steady state, there is no current across a capacitor
(note: zero current, not zero voltage). The capacitor basically acts
like an open circuit. For the case of DC battery, capacitor, and
resistor in series, at infinite time, there is no current and no
voltage drop across the resistor (i.e., both sides of the resistor are at
the same potential), so the voltage drop across the capacitor is the
same as the drop across the battery. This is consistent with the
limit of AC Ohm's Law:
is infinite, and therefore
is zero.
Now, there are transient solutions to the DE's set up using the Loop Rule, as we saw a few lectures ago: for the short period of time while the capacitor is charging up, or discharging, there is a varying current (and voltage) across the capacitor. However the AC limit corresponds to the steady state situation, after transients have died away; for an circuit, potential across the capacitor is constant and current is zero after the transients have gone away.